There are two things I’d like to share this week.
1. The behaviors of the Inner conflict
I met a friend a few days ago who was caught in a romantic dilemma.
Rationally, she wanted to end the relationship.
Emotionally, she wanted to continue.
As she spoke, I noticed clear differences in her body.
Her rational side leaned forward — active, driven, slightly pressuring.
Her emotional side appeared softer, almost weaker.
But when she explained why she wanted to continue,
her body told a different story.
She stood firmly, grounded, like a very practical person —
even though she described it as “fantasy.”
Her arms were tense, as if she were holding on to something.
Suddenly, an image came to me:
a little girl walking steadily through a dreamlike world.
I realized she was holding onto a beautiful experience that was about to disappear — one that no one was really listening to.
That’s why she had to hold on to it, even though the rational side seemed to make more sense.
I shared what I saw. We both cried, and she felt much more relaxed.
I didn’t analyze her. I wasn’t reading her mind or giving advice.
I simply watched what she was doing — and noticed the actions she was taking in that moment.
That’s why I appreciate the theatrical way of observation.
You don’t interpret. You let it unfold.
2. Writing frequency
I’ll be writing 1–2 times a month instead of weekly.
Not because I have less to share — quite the opposite.
I really enjoy writing to you, and I don’t want this to turn into a
“time to send a weekly email” or “they say it’s good for building a relationship with your audience” kind of thing.
A monthly rhythm gives space for reflection — and it’s not a strict schedule.
And as always, you’re very welcome to write to me anytime.
Truly
18 Dec, 2025